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“From Hinduism to the monotheisms through to Socrates, Plato and Aristotle, the common message is that we are all, naturally and potentially, inclined to reject the other, and to be intolerant and racist. Left to our own devices and our own emotions, we can be deaf, blind, dogmatic, closed and xenophobic: we are not born open-minded, respectful and pluralist. We become so through personal effort, education, self-mastery and knowledge.” 
― Tariq Ramadan
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3 Questions

When I meet a new person, I am interested in learning about their struggles. I believe these 3 questions reveal a lot about a person, their struggles, their resilience, their attitude towards life, their strength to carry on and move mountains. If they are willing to share their struggles with me I know they are proud of something. Whether it's their ability to identify, acknowledge or overcome, there is something they are proud of. When someone's eyes light up I know I have a story that will teach me something extremely remarkable and valuable and that means a world to me.

I learned How to Breathe ...

5/16/2016

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Leah, Manassas, VA
What was your most challenging struggle?

When my 19 year old son was arrested for robbery and sent to jail. I didn't know how to cope. I would stop on the side of the road and scream "God, help me". I thought I raised him right. I worked very hard. He was a great kid. He got President's award in school. I just don't know what went wrong.

How did you cope with it?

I just learned how to breathe. I had to show him hard love. I told him if he makes another mistake like this, I won't be there to help.


Knowing what you know now, what would you tell someone who is going through a similar situation?

I would tell him/her not to be too soft on your kids. Give them boundaries. Give them limits. Show them you love them but also have the strength to discipline them.

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